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Many clients we've worked with have told us they wanted to use a favorite restaurant for their receptions, but they often find that they aren't able to do it because the restaurant doesn't have the resources to handle wedding receptions, or the price to rent the restaurant is too expensive. Thus, many clients end up going with their second choice - a reception hall with in-house staff. We've been DJ-ing in and around New York City for a long time, and our experience has taught us not every reception hall offers a rushed, generic or "cheesy" feel, but let's just say the image of the reception hall as having "cookie-cutter" services is at times based in reality.

The reception halls often will say they can make your celebration special and one-of-a-kind, but since these venues are designed to pack in many events they usually need to run them with an assembly-line mentality, and we've seen it's not very easy for these halls to pull off a feel of originality. At a restaurant, it's often easier for a couple (or a couple along with their DJ and other vendors) to craft a structure and feel for an event with a more personal style - since venues that don't do weddings every weekend often are more open to being flexible with the elements they recommend including in a reception and how to "flow" them. But, when thinking of choosing a restaurant for their reception, couples ask: can restaurants run weddings smoothly? Is there enough space to dance after dinner? And is it affordable? Well, just like every hall doesn't hold ten wedding receptions at once, we've found through working all over the city for many years that there are many excellent restaurants in and around the city able pull off wedding receptions that satisfy all these criteria - and the best thing is, there's an impressive diversity in styles (and unexpectedly great locations) out there.

In this post, as well as more posts soon to follow, we'll spotlight a few restaurants in and around New York City that are some of the best we've seen over the years for having a wedding reception. We've co-ordinated closely with these establishments and their accomodating staffs, observed guests raving about their food, used their layouts to provide a comfortable space for dancing, and know that the couples we've worked for who've booked these restaurants aren't millionaires. In short, these establishments give couples the whole package if they're looking to hold a reception at a restaurant and do it with style.

Thalassa - This Tribeca restaurant (pictured left), serving Greek and Mediterranean, is sleek and modern in its decor but has just enough exposed brick walls and mahogany wine cabinets to give it earthiness and warmth. The guests always remark how the food is excellent; the staff effortlessly knows how to handle the increased pace, coordination, and larger scale of a wedding; the managers are flexible with timelines and structuring the special moments of the reception like entrances, first dances, etc.; and after dinner, the space is just the right size to accommodate a decent-sized dancing area along with a portable bar nearby. For bigger parties, or simply for added flexibility in planning, there is also a downstairs wine cellar big enough to be used for either a lounge, dining room, or a dancing area. Go here for a sample of events we’ve DJ-ed at Thalassa over the years. Their website is www.thalassanyc.com

Golden Unicorn - Just south of Thalassa, in Chinatown, is the Golden Unicorn (pictured right), a gourmet Chinese restaurant that offers some of the best Chinese food in the city. This isn’t your typical food you may know from the corner Chinese place either. This is much more upscale and attractively-prepared. Dinners here for receptions feature an over 10 course meal of what essentially are small plates for each guest of more exotic and eclectic Chinese food. Its taste is always extremely delicious and accessible to even conservative palates - we know, as we've been there before watching hundreds of people of all cultures really enjoying the food. The courses come not too fast or not too slow, but just right - a clear sign that the restaurant is very used to handling wedding receptions. The venue’s atmosphere is in places grand and traditional, with plenty of red and, well, golden, creatures like unicorns and dragons present. But because most of this decor is centered around the dancing area, it makes the vibe feel very festive and fun, as the lights go down and people pack this part of the space. Of course, the restaurant is a great venue for Chinese weddings or multi-cultural weddings with a Chinese side, but it's a credit to the atmosphere and quality of the food that we've been here not just for Chinese weddings. For its slight grandiose atmosphere, the restaurant is so down-to-earth and friendly in terms of the staff's attitude. The managers we’ve worked at the Golden Unicorn also are able to help with Cantonese and/or Mandarin translations along with MC's if extensive translations are needed throughout the event, as some of the events we've done here have gone beyond the basic Chinese announcements that we often use in our MC-ing at Chinese weddings. Go here for a sample of events we've DJ-ed at the Golden Unicorn. Their website is www.goldenunicornrestaurant.com.

Riverview - This cozy but slyly chic restaurant (pictured left), located on the waterfront on the border of the Astoria and Long Island City neighborhoods of Queens, is a true hidden gem. It's located in a quiet, pretty area that day or night gives you spectacular views of the midtown Manhattan skyline; there's a broad-ranging, eclectic menu of food that always tastes fresh, a breezy, ethereal atmosphere that mingles angular modern decor with organic touches like a variety of flower and small tree branch arrangements; a stylish circular lounge/bar area; and a dining room that is both elegant and casual. Also, there's a room off to the side of the dining room where wedding ceremonies can be held. We and our clients have worked with the staff here and the managers are extremely flexible at planning a reception structure that fits any style, from "indie" or eclectic to more traditional or formal. The openness of the dining room also makes the transition from dinner to dancing very easy for guests. Go here for a sample of events we've DJ-ed at Riverview. Their website is www.riverviewny.com.
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On July 24th, New York State’s law allowing same-sex marriages went into effect. Throughout the state, and in New York City, a huge number of couples waited to take their vows in the early morning hours at various marriage bureaus. From the start of the day it seemed every news report on television, the internet, and in newspapers that you came across all remarked strongly on the intense feeling of thrill, giddy disbelief, and often the joyful release of emotions long-held inside.

We feel great that same-sex couples have finally won these new rights, but also, for a company like us that loves to plan and spin at all kinds of unique weddings – be  it same-sex marriages or those “other” kind – and has been doing it for years, this is also exciting for us professionally as well. Recently, Dan and I were interviewed for UK radio, on BBC Radio 1 (and featured in their on-line article), in which we talk about our enthusiasm for same sex weddings. The interview is below, and you can read the article here.

We anticipate there will be a huge increase in same-sex couples wanting to marry, and just like the other couples who tend to be attracted to our approach, gay and lesbian couples are going to want it to be a wedding personalized to them, and not some generic, cookie-cutter party with tired music and over-long or obnoxious MC announcements. We’re excited to what the future will bring, and to get to know what each of these couples see as their vision or vibe for their special day. Whether a couple envisions a celebration that’s more traditional, or wants a large-scale bash at a huge space, or prefers an eccentric, low-key lounge vibe, or desires a cozy gathering at an old converted brownstone – whatever the case, this kind of customization is what has been our specialty for a long time. We’re looking forward to working with more same-sex couples in this way – while also looking forward to integrating new ceremony or reception moments for these couples that may emerge as being popular crowd-pleasers at same-sex weddings

As a DJ company that is already experienced in planning and spinning at same-sex weddings, it’s really going to be fun and special for us to take that experience and match it with the joy and enthusiasm that we know so many gay and lesbian couples will have for planning their wedding, now that they are, after a long wait, official.

BBC Radio 1 Interview with djnyc

Venues such as reception halls, country clubs, inns and the like are often a popular choice when looking for a place to hold your wedding celebration. These establishments are designed to host weddings and therefore, the thought goes, are more well-equipped and experienced when it comes to dealing with all of the planning, coordination, and often complicated execution that managing a successful wedding celebration involves. Also, "turn-key" venues like this can be cheaper than lofts, restaurants or more eclectic spaces.

Well, not so fast. We’ve DJ-ed for years at all kinds of these venues throughout the New York City metropolitan area. And while yes, having your wedding at a hall or a country club definitely takes much work out of the management of a wedding in that these venues can be a “one-stop shop” for major components of your celebration (the space, the food, a banquet manager) we’ve also found that sometimes – not all the time, but sometimes – the sheer “usualness” of the venue’s normal procedures can lead to inflexibility and a dull "assembly-line" mentality (see the extremely festive photo above of the "Party House") toward events that can get in the way of making your celebration as special as it could be.

Here's the three major ways in which we've found this often happens:

1) They Pack in Too Many Receptions

People sometimes refer cynically to halls and country clubs as “wedding factories” since they schedule many different weddings a day there, and often at the same time. Once, when performing a wedding at one of these venues, one of our DJs returned to the reception room thinking it was the wedding he was working, only to see a moment later that there was a DJ he didn’t recognize already behind the table – whoops, wrong wedding! His was the one next door.

This sounds ridiculous, but since weddings are huge business for these venues, some try to pack in the receptions as if they’re simply a more elaborate karaoke party. And what’s worse, the walls of the rooms in these venues can sometimes be fairly thin – sometimes we’ve even been able to hear the DJ and his booming bass booming in the reception room next to ours. This atmosphere all makes your reception seem not at all special and unique – on a day when that’s what many, if not all, couples want most for themselves and their guests.

So, if you’re set on a banquet hall or any venue that regularly holds weddings, make sure to ask how many other weddings will be around you and how close they will be. Ask to come in on a typical night to see how the venue arranges these weddings. Or, surprise them – just simply dress up a bit, go to one of these venues, and peek inside the place. You’ll quickly know if you like what you’re seeing – if the place keeps a certain amount of respectable distance between the location of the weddings, or if they intend on treating you like newlywed sardines.

2) Their Reception Timeline Might Not Be Best for Your Party

This is something we’ve often seen at venues that do a lot of weddings – the schedule or timeline of the reception is rigidly based on how the venue is used to serving the food courses. Many times, this means that, in order for the staff to more quickly put down courses and take them away, the banquet manager tells couples they need to have dancing sets at certain intervals. For some couples, this is fine. But for others – knowing their crowd won’t want to dance too early in the reception, a desire to have longer, more uninterrupted dancing sets, or simply wanting dancing to being a little later, when people have more drinks in them – these dance sets feel too unnatural or “forced.”

If a couple asks to “alter” the usual template of food service – say, to collapse the time between courses, so the flow of the dinner feels more like you’re at a restaurant – the venue will sometimes tell you that can’t be done. What they aren’t telling you is why they don’t want to do it, and that usually has to do with their convenience, not yours. For example, it’s easier for the staff to clear the tables when people are out on the dance floor. Again, if you don’t mind having two 20-minute dance sets before dinner, no problem – often these sets can be great fun.

However, if you want to plan things a bit more your way, make sure to have an alternate plan to suggest (a meeting with your DJ should be able to help you to plan a night that maximizes the mood you want; we do this regularly with clients), and, if you find the venue is reticent to it, ask why changing things would be difficult. Also, mention what you care about most. For example, you can explain that you don’t mind if people are at their seats when the food is put down and taken away since you’d rather have 10 minutes of sitting down in between courses than 20-minute dance sets after the appetizer and the salad. Sometimes the mangers of these venues, knowing what makes you happy, are very willing to change things around once they know your preferences, even though they're slightly different than what most couples at these venues do. Other times, to these venue managers, requests that mean going off their template are not met with much enthusiasm no matter what, and you might get the sense they don’t enjoy it or will simply ignore it, like when you ask McDonalds’ to make a cheeseburger with light ketchup and no onions.

3) Your Maitre'd Could Be a Hardass

Sorry to be a little harsh, but this is the most accurate way to put it. Unfortunately, we’ve run into this unfortunate situation at halls and country clubs more than a few times. Of course you want your maitre’d to run a tight ship, but not to be a robot or an inflexible jerk. Why would this be a big problem? Simple – because it can squelch great moments during the reception. For example, if the cake cutting is scheduled to happen at 10 p.m. and there’s a killer dance set going and guests are having an orgasmic time, the maitre’d or head waiter should give the DJ a song or two to let the moment breathe or to at least let the DJ finish the song. It’s hard to believe, but we’ve had many a maitre’d come over to us, and, seeing a full, high-energy dancefloor, tell us to cut the music and announce the cake cutting song. When we ask them if we can at least finish up the song, these party-deaf staffers simply huff away or tell us again, tersely, as if we spit in their face, to cut the music. It’s pretty astonishing, the ability to be that numb to a room of people enjoying themselves so throroughly.

To make sure you don’t get a maitre’d like this, ask to meet yours, and emphasize that you as a couple will be happy if the timeline is a little behind if it means a special moment can go a bit longer. If you can't meet the maitre’d beforehand, make this point with the head of the staff , banquet maanger, or whoever is in charge so the maitre’d is sure to get the request. Doing this may eliminate the problem of rigidity, if it’s coming from a place of wanting to make sure you’re happy. If it doesn’t solve the problem, and you still get soem sort of insistence on sticking to the timeline, you know the inflexibility is coming from another place, like a desire to simply want to sleepwalk though a shift. And that usually means it’s time to look for a different venue.

Last Thursday, a recent nationally-syndicated interview aired that we did for NPR’s “Marketplace.” In the interview, we discuss with reporter Jeremy Hobson what makes a great retro flashback song, and how a new generation is becoming just old enough to want to hear nostalgic tunes from their childhood at the clubs, bars and events they attend  – usually after several drinks, that is. Have a look and a listen:

American Marketplace – 03/25/10

Here’s the audio of the interview (It’s a podcast, our segment starts at 23:15 elapsed):

djnyc – NPR